Who Is A Successful Woman?- Top 12 Traits!

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“Keep your heels, head, and standards high”
~ Coco Chanel

Have you ever been asked the question “Who is a successful woman?” in the past? Yesterday, I sat down pondering on that question. Who is a successful woman?

Many women want to know how to be successful in life. They like the idea of being boss ladies, but the real problem lies in knowing how to be a boss lady. First, you have to know that the lifestyle of an ordinary woman is quite different from that of a successful woman.

And in the same vein, the habits of a highly successful woman, are highly different from that of a normal woman. And so, if you are interested in learning how to be a successful woman, you must ensure that these twelve habits are inculcated in your daily living.

I know this sounds a lot but you don’t have to feel overwhelmed by these 12 steps. At the end of this article, I have attached a 30 day challenge you can embark on that is guaranteed to massively improve the quality of your life.

After an extensive research, this article has been written for women who are interested in making things work. The women are highly passionate about reaching great heights! Whatever it is, never be afraid.

In all my writing journey, I have tried to inspire women with my gift of words, and that is exactly what I intend to achieve with this topic too!

I must warn, if all you want is little stop-worrying tips like, ‘oh, think happy and have some soothing chamomile tea’ then I think you have come to the wrong place…

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We are here to outline some detailed and very important tips on how to become a successful woman
Grab a seat, and let’s look into the 12 top traits of highly successful women. 


1.  They Work On Self-Growth/Self-Improvement.

Who is a successful woman? A successful woman is one who never stops working on herself.

To work on your self-growth, you need to engage in honest self-reflection. Purposefully note whatever is preventing your true self from blooming.

Identify those weaknesses, take note of those distractions, and work on them. In all honesty, it might be hard and maybe even impossible to eliminate your weaknesses but you must carefully work on them so your strengths become more magnified than your weaknesses.

The best way to work on improving yourself as a highly successful woman is to consciously monitor your self-growth through honest self-reflection.

Take note of the unresolved issues that are impacting your daily life and don’t be afraid to ask for feedback from trusted people.

For self-improvement, take note of moments and things that inspire you, consciously improve your skills and learn new ones if possible.

Practice a lot of positive talks too, and intentionally decide to immediately bury the most infinitesimal form of negative thought; when you feel overwhelmed, remind yourself why you started in the first place and that you are strong.

The word “purposefully” and “consciously” is continuously used in this point because your self-growth and improvement as a successful woman are highly dependent on your self-awareness.


2.  They Are Financially Savvy

Who is a successful woman? A successful woman is smart with her finances.

Being savvy mainly involves knowledgeability and being cleverly resourceful in practical matters, so to be financially savvy, you must first have a great deal of financial intelligence.

As a highly successful woman, you must keep a close eye on your finances both through budgeting and regularly monitoring your bank accounts for progress.

As stated earlier being savvy involves knowledgeability and reading the basics of financing, will help you understand how to manage your money better.

Get in the habit of reading your bank statements to stay in check of how you spend your money. Save more and cut back on unnecessary expenses. Ask yourself “do I need this?” “Will I survive without this particular item?” If you are honest with yourself, you will know if you need to spend that amount or save it for the long-term.

Create a budget for yourself by working out your income and expenses. At the beginning of the month, create a personalised spreadsheet for your spending, income, and savings. And not just creating, but be disciplined enough to stick with your budget.

When you create your budget even before your income, it helps you to avoid unnecessary expenses. Remember not to just create the budget.

Sticking to it is important. Additionally, you must analyse your expenses carefully and cut down what is not important or necessary. Be smart! Compare prices and items and yes, go for the comfortable and most affordable ones.


3.  They Always Invest In Themselves

Who is a successful woman? A successful woman is one who sees herself worthy enough to be invested in.

As a woman, being successful, highly successful at that, involves a great deal of investment in yourself. The oxford dictionary defines the word invest as “to spend money, time or energy into something especially for some benefit or purpose”.

The “something” here is yourself and the benefit of spending time, money, and energy on yourself is becoming the best version of yourself and that is an attribute of a successful woman.

However, it is expedient to note that you cannot invest in yourself when you have not discovered your purpose. You must have a mental image of your desired future and then purposefully work towards it.

Invest in your mental and emotional health, financial growth, physical growth, and your personal growth generally. Strive to be the best at the skills that you have and if you can learn new skills, you definitely should.

Take risks. Try out new things. Meet new people. Drop bad habits and cultivate new ones. Stay Optimistic Always. Build a strong network and I recommend you have a strong online presence. Let your social media handles reflect who you are as a person.

Deliberately put yourself in situations where you are learning something new because the world is evolving every day and you cannot remain in your comfort zone.

Do not let your life revolve around the same people for too long, this does not mean that you abandon long times friends but you must give room for new people that would push you to become the better you. Jim Rohn says “You are the average of the five people you spend your time with”.

All these go without saying that you must read books! Visit blogs, websites, and YouTube channels that help you become a better version of yourself. Of course, www.afamuche.com is one of the most resourceful sites on the internet. Do sleep on it! 


4.  They Embrace Challenges

Who is a successful woman? A successful woman never fails to embrace challenges.

She is not scared. Embrace life as it is, rather than as you wish it to be. Life comes with the good and the bad, the love and the pain, life, and death.

To enjoy life, you must embrace it all. You must understand that it is not always going to be comfortable and when challenges come, you must with finesse, take the bull by its very horn!

The greatest rewards are offered to those who are willing to take the largest leaps and as a highly successful woman, you must develop the habit of moving out of your comfort zone and take up new challenges.

The truth is, challenges make an attempt more enjoyable because of the difficulty that it poses. It might seem like something impossible until you make an attempt.

Sometimes, we avoid tough situations because we are not ready to see certain aspects of ourselves. You must allow life to flow through you and this means embracing challenges when they come.

Most often than not, these challenges would lead you to a deeper sense of fulfillment. Trust me when I say it’s not going to be easy. But as a highly successful woman, you can do it if you put your mind to it.


5.  They Are Not Afraid Of Failure

“Think like a queen. A queen is not afraid to fail. Failure is another stepping stone to greatness” Oprah Winfrey.

Who is a successful woman? A successful woman knows that in life, you win some and you lose some.

She is never afraid of failing. It is in human nature to be afraid when you are out of your comfort zone but you must not allow this fear to consume you and hinder your productivity and success.

Research has shown that the best outcomes are created when we balance positive thinking with visualizing the future obstacles we will encounter.

Allow yourself to feel the fear. Yes, it might sound conflicting but if you stay in denial you might not make any progress. Visualize possible obstacles and see yourselves succeeding despite these obstacles.

When people achieve seemingly impossible feats, it looks as though they conquered everything without any form of fear. They did, but they converted their fear into more energy to achieve that feat.

That is a habit you must cultivate as a highly successful woman. Surrender yourself, feel the fear, discover what exactly scares you, figure out what you would do should your fears manifest, and visualize your success.

You must know that you would not always succeed, there are times you will fail and you must not beat yourself up too much over it. When you fail and you have to try again, it helps you develop lasting confidence in yourself.


6.  They Set Actionable Goals And Stick To Them

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Who is a successful woman? A successful woman is resolute with her goals. For your goals to be actionable, you must first decide what exactly you want to achieve.

Clarity is an important factor in goal setting and it’s achievement. To set actionable goals, you must write them down, and break them into bits.

Daily, weekly, monthly, yearly. I strongly recommend that you resolve to do something daily that moves you towards the achievement of your goal.

Your goals must be SMART. Specific: Any goal you must set should be clearly defined without ambiguity. Know what you want and put it into writing.

Measurable: Include precise dates and deadlines so that you can measure the degree of your success.

Attainable: You must ensure that while it is expedient that you set goals that push you out of your comfort zone, you must also make sure that it is within your capacity to achieve the goals that you have set.

Relevant: Your goals must be relevant to the future that you have envisaged. It must be about becoming the best version of yourself and the mastery of your skills.

Time-bound: For your goals to be achievable, you must set a deadline as they would help create a sense of urgency in you.

While it is important to set SMART goals, you must not forget to stick with them. Build reminders to keep yourself on track and from time, review your goals, and know where you are slacking to make necessary adjustments.

If you are in search of a good and productive Planner to enable you to track your habits and outline these habits with an effective plan Afam Uche Goal Chaser is highly recommended for you.

The weekly planner will enable you to outline your main goals, break them down into actionable steps, allow you to track your progress, and highlight the important changes you need to make to move faster towards your goals.

It is not enough to know what you want, but you must doggedly pursue these goals while envisaging its achievement and your success.


7. They Celebrate Their Wins, Both Big And Small

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Who is a successful woman? A successful woman is a happy woman. She takes pride in the works of her hands and celebrates her wins, both big and small.

Research shows that when it comes to committing to a new habit, honoring small success is the key to a lasting change.Don’t be too hard on yourself. You must celebrate your wins no matter how small or big they might be.

Every time I complete a small feat, like writing an article in a shorter time I say to myself after reading them through, “Wow baby! You did it better this time, you really are the best!” Sometimes I take a bowl of ice-cream to celebrate further (I’m not responsible if you go ahead to have a big bowl of ice cream when you should be dieting haha).

All these make me feel more at peace with myself and gives me more confidence to do better next time. That is a habit you must cultivate as a successful woman.

Share your wins with your loved ones, let them tell you how proud they are of you. You could also share them with me on Instagram and I would love to tap from your high vibration to gaining more wins *winks*

Take a break and recovery days when necessary. Acknowledge every little effort and every goal that you achieve. No win is too small. A win is a win and must acknowledge and celebrate.

Take some time to reflect and take note of how much progress you have made. If you do not acknowledge yourself, no amount of validation from others would suffice. As a highly successful woman, celebrate every win.


8. They Keep Their Body, Soul And Mind Healthy

Who is a successful woman? A successful woman knows the value of the healthiness of her body, soul, and mind.

As a woman, your body should like the gem that it is. A doctor said, “If we all followed the kind of meal plans people with diabetes follow, this world would be a healthier place”. This means that what we eat largely determines the kind of life we would live.

Limit your intake of sugar as a woman, eat varieties of foods and take a lot of fruits and vegetables, be careful of your carbohydrate intakes, eat smaller portions of food spread throughout the day, eat less fat and less salt, avoid alcohol and smoking.

Exercise for at least thirty minutes daily. Don’t overwork yourself and know when to take a break to rest. Prioritize your sleep. You should also practice the art of meditation.

All you need is at least 10 minutes daily for it to work wonders, ranging from decreasing stress and anxiety to preventing premature aging. Maintain a clean environment also.

You must not take care of your physical body at the expense of your emotional health and your mind. Your mind is what largely controls your actions so if your mind is not stable, you may find it hard to maintain healthy physical hygiene.

A successful woman is a strong and resilient woman who is also ready to reach out when her mental health is threatened. Don’t hesitate to reach out for help in those down moments.

Either from a trusted friend or a professional. Your emotional health is as important as your physical health and so you must immediately eliminate any situation or person that poses a threat to your emotional stability. Get rid of bad energy ASAP!


9.  They Take Action

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Who is a successful woman? A successful woman is action-oriented. A highly successful woman is not afraid to take action. Inaction can be a seed of insecurity and that is not an attribute that you should possess.

As stated earlier, you must covert your fears to energy. Don’t let your fear consume and push you to inaction. Stop overthinking or overanalyzing issues because that would only make you see more reasons why you should not take action. “When we start to overthink things, we start to get paralysis of analysis”.

Stop obsessing about perfection and just do it. The famous Chinese proverb says “The best time to plant a tree was 20 years ago. The second best time is now”. Don’t wait till conditions are perfect.

No circumstance within your will power should stop you from taking action when necessary. You must continuously take action and no matter how slow your pace might seem; you must not stop. Your actions would help you to overcome your fear.

Actions are like the antidote to fear. When you take action, you will discover that your fears are largely an exaggerated mental illusion that you have created for yourself. It is never too late, focus on the present. 

The fact that you should have done it before now does not mean that you should not bother doing it again. The action remains there, posing discomfort or challenges until you rise to the task. It is never too late to be what you might have been.


10. They Practice Gratitude

Who is a successful woman?A successful woman never fails to show gratitude to those who have helped her get to the height she is.

The art of gratitude helps you to take note and reflect on positive emotions and stay connected with positivity. It helps you feel more alive and express more compassion and kindness.

This is a habit you must cultivate as a highly successful woman. Be thankful for yourself, your progress, your loved ones, and many other things. Keep a gratitude journal and find new things you are grateful for every day.

Enhance your gratitude practice by getting specific with your gratitude even to the things that seem unimportant. Don’t limit yourself to gratitude journaling if you think it is boring. But you must find a convenient way to keep track of all the things you are grateful for.

The art of gratitude is not only limited to things you are grateful to that you have experienced or that you have but also to people you are grateful for. Send them appreciation texts or gifts. Make them feel truly loved.

Gratitude helps to build strong relationships, and it helps people acknowledge the goodness in their lives. When you have mastered the art of gratitude, you get more in touch with positive emotions and it also improves health, builds a stronger immune system, and helps to significantly increase your happiness.


11.  They Don’t Compare Themselves To Others

”The woman who follows the crowd will usually go no further than the crowd”

Who is a successful woman?A successful woman realizes the fact that as humans, we are all different in our own ways. By now, I assume everyone should know that people only let you see the part of them that they want you to.

You may be there using someone else’s standards to set yours while that person isn’t even living up to that standard in reality. Comparison breeds envy and low self-esteem.

A highly successful woman must never compare herself to anyone. You should set your standards according to your preferences because if you continue to live in someone else’s shadow, that’s all you will ever be. A shadow.

By comparing yourselves to others, you are negating your road and your purpose. Remind yourself that people don’t walk around exposing their struggles for others to see and that is why you must never compare yourself to anyone.

Be grateful and content with the things you have and make progress at your own pace. If you have people that make you feel jealous and you cannot control yourself from beating yourself up to be like them then you should try to avoid them.

Everyone has triggers, things, or people that make them feel like they are not doing enough. If you have identified your triggers, avoid them.


12. They Make Out Time For Self-Care.

Who is a successful woman? A successful woman is conscious about how well she cares for her physical, mental, and emotional health.

Self-care matters a lot because you cannot maintain the status of a highly successful woman if you do not give enough attention to your self-care.

Take good care of yourself by eating healthy and regularly, taking self-care trips, maintaining healthy hygiene, and exercising daily. Also, make sleep a part of your self-care routine.

Lack of sleep can affect how you feel both emotionally and physically. Make sure your bedroom is free of distractions, especially your mobile gadgets, and ensure you have darkening curtains.

This helps you to fall asleep easier and you would wake up feeling better. After a stressful day, engage in things that calm you, and help you relax more.

Most times, we feel obligated when someone asks for our time or energy but you find it easy to neglect your self-care. Learn how to politely say no, except when necessary because your self-care must always come first.

Hey woman! Thank you for reading through. Those are some of the traits you would only find in successful women. So, when next someone asks you “Who is a successful woman?”, tell them everything on this list.

I want you to know that I love you, and there is nothing in this world, that you cannot achieve if only you will set your mind to it. Never allow anyone to belittle you. Although I already wrote 10 keys to success in life, I took out the time to do this for you alone. Go conquer the world! I am rooting for you!… Uche

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  • Hey Afam ,
    Thank you for this brilliant way to detail and organise one’s plans, goals and missions.
    I truly am grateful and will definitely look to using your guide in detailing my progress and to stay focussed. ✌🏼

    Best wishes to you,